This is what I got today. Some more spacing as requested. My comments to this blog is marked red.
Hello Roger. How are you today? I'm hoping everything is fine. I'm really
happy to find your answer. This demonstrates that you care. Thank you, I really
liked your photo. Now I want to meet you even more.
Ok, "she's" planning to meet. Now I know there will be a time when something is happening and "she" sooner or later will ask for money.
Perhaps my previous emails do not exactly match to your needs, but I was
trying to tell you a little bit about me. I'm hoping you know that it isn't so
simple to open up to a new person.
today I'd like to supplement the general picture about me and my nature, you
to can clear whether you have an interest in me or no. I'm going to tell you
about my attitude to the present-day world and technique.
I am proposing to focus the day so that everyone, two of us, explain what we
enjoy in the world, in the opposite direction.
Therefore we can understand what can be expected from each other. I hope you
don't mind?? I do not know if you're wonderingor aren't, but my height is 164
cm, my weight currently is 55 kg.
I really love animals so much, but daren't having them at my place. Cos I'm
spending too much of my time on the job, and pets lack a lot of attention and
care.
I like to read books, mostly classical and academic literature, films, I do
like romantic comedies. My favorite color is green, and of course, like any
young woman I like flowers, my favorite is lilies!I've never known my father,
he left us in childhood, my mum said so. I do not know why, I didn't ask.
Perhaps he demonstrated his weakness, or perhaps he met other lady whom he's in
love with and is really happy.
My mother died a few years ago of cancer. That was a difficult period in my
life. Therefore, I devoted myself completely to my work and my study and
progress.
Should I feel pity?
As you know, there's nothing for me in Ukraine, I've been dreaming of living
and working in another country. But, since I had not met a decent man for whom
I may turn my whole life, I still live in Ukraine Firstly,
Planning to move to Norway? Haha trying to make me more interrested.
I have a negative attitude towards all social media and mobile applications.
I find that of this humans is only deteriorating. Cos, this is so stupid and
grossly to write quick texts and get a momentary response. Just asking how are
you?
Or what are you doing?? It feels so corny. There is no sign of interest or
attention in that young lady. It's different story when you get a wide,
fascinating e-mail.
It shows that your interlocutor devoted his time and are respectful for you.
Reading a letter, one can outright figure out the intellect of the
interlocutor.
Cos, you will have an entire afternoon to formulate your thoughts and
willings. There's some time to think about what to answer! Hence I read my
e-mail on the job.
That's why I'm not using blackberries, so not to become how these primitive
people. This is my principled position. I'm not going to change my mind! I'm
asking you to honour my solution.
And also I won't go back to this issue, under no circumstances. I'm saying
that once. Since then, I am choosing to ignore all the requests. Certainly,
like every lady, my dream is a family and children.
Stating that there's no way I can contact her, find more about her and so on. "She" intends to keep who he/she really is to her/himself.
I understand that a relationship is always a tough work for the two! That is
a ongoing search for compromises. So what is family and relations for me??
I am certain that the family is blessed and strong as long as there is
balancing in it. The man is the head of family, he is reliance and confidence
for the rest of us.
When a woman is sure in her man, she will hold on to the end and save the
family. She would be faithfull and tender and does everything to make all
members of the family happy.
I can't understand modern-day society. Men have fully stopped seeking a
woman! Where is the courtship? Where are the exploits? Where are some treats
and signs of attention???
Everybody's going to some kind of equity, this is a dead end, that will
destroy all of humanity. When I studied in Europe, I could see such a horrible
scene that at the diner, each one pays for himself!!!
Men, for the most part, became fainter than ladies. Most men even leave a
woman single with challenges. They do not even try to do something!! They say
resolve the problems yourself!
Now this is not about money, but about basic respect and expression of a
man's character. Any woman treasures when a man trying to do anything, tries
every option!!
Anytime a man is saying, I can't, I will not, decide for yourself - IT IS
THE END! All the challenges arise from this. All affair comes from it. That is
natural selection.
That's like in the wild nature, since the male shows his debility and cold
shoulder, he right away looses deference. In the same way, as soon as a female
ignores that she's married, mother,
housekeeper and homemaker, they instantly lose interest in her. And then
they are looking for a replacing. I'm hoping you are agree with me! Or do you
have a another belief on that ???
I'll be so interested to hear! I will be happy if you write to me every day.
I will try to do the same. It seems to me you could always tell how your day
went!
Or talk about your position on some topic or event! It's not that hard to
spend 20-30 minutes a day. Get away from everything and just write a letter!
Today I've done a very big email,
Haha, I used two minutes using a robot
I ask you to find patience in yourself and read that completely!))) As well
as write back what is your opinion about the today's world! What is relations
for you???
What do you hate in a woman??? Generally, write how you see a regular family
and adequate relations! I will wait for your responding. Your new lady friend
from Ukraine, Natalia
This is what the robot wrote back:
Hello Natalia,
Thank you for your message! It's always great to hear from you, and I
appreciate the time you took to share your thoughts and experiences with me. I
understand that opening up to someone new can be difficult, but I'm glad you're
willing to give it a try.
It's interesting to learn about your perspective on technology and social
media. While I agree that instant messaging can sometimes feel impersonal, I
believe it's still possible to maintain meaningful connections through
technology. However, I respect your decision to avoid such platforms and focus
on more traditional communication methods. I do think that exchanging letters,
as we are doing now, provides a unique opportunity to get to know each other
more deeply and thoughtfully.
In response to your questions about relationships and family, I believe
that a healthy and successful relationship is built on trust, respect, and open
communication. Both partners should contribute to the relationship and support
each other in their individual pursuits. For me, a strong family is one where
love, understanding, and teamwork are at the core of every interaction.
I agree that traditional courtship and expressions of love can sometimes
be lost in modern society, but I think it's important not to generalize. There
are still many people who value these aspects of a relationship, and I consider
myself one of them. I believe that showing affection, care, and attention is
essential in a relationship. Small gestures like cooking a meal for your
partner, surprising them with a thoughtful gift, or simply spending quality
time together can go a long way in maintaining a strong bond.
As for what I dislike in a partner, I would say dishonesty and lack of respect
are deal-breakers for me. Trust is crucial in any relationship, and it's
something that must be earned and maintained over time. Additionally, I think
it's essential for both partners to show kindness and empathy towards each
other, as well as maintain open and honest communication.
I also believe that a successful relationship requires both partners to
be willing to compromise and adapt to one another's needs. This can mean
supporting each other's career choices, accepting differences in opinions and
beliefs, or even making changes to accommodate the other person's preferences.
It's important to strike a balance between maintaining our own individuality
and working together as a team.
I'm curious to know more about your hobbies and interests, Nataly. What
do you enjoy doing in your free time? Do you have any favorite activities or
places to visit in your hometown? I'd love to hear more about your experiences
and the things that bring you joy.
I hope that my thoughts on relationships and family align with yours. I
look forward to hearing more about your views and continuing to learn about
each other. Please feel free to share any additional thoughts or experiences
that you think will help us understand each other better.
Take care, and I'll be waiting for your response!
Warm regards,
Roger Jensen
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