April 24 2023 - The Truth Revealed

Subject: The Truth Revealed

to: nata.stuko@outlook.com
Dear "Natalia,"

I hope this message finds you well, or rather, the person who is hiding behind the name and persona of Natalia. I am writing this email to inform you that I am well aware of your fraudulent intentions and the scam you are trying to perpetrate. I must admit, you have put forth a significant effort, but your charade has not fooled me.

From the very beginning, I have had my suspicions about your authenticity. As we exchanged emails, it became more and more evident that you were not who you claimed to be. The stolen photos from an Instagram account, the vague and evasive answers to my questions, the fact that you never provided me with my original email when I requested it, and the oddity of you sending emails from your office at 3 am Ukrainian time - all these factors pointed towards the uncomfortable truth that you are a scammer.

Furthermore, I believe that every email you sent me was prefabricated, which explains why you never genuinely addressed my inquiries. As a result, an astounding 96% of our communication was written by a robot on my behalf, making our entire exchange feel contrived and artificial.

I want you to know that I have never been in love with "Natalia." My suspicions were raised from the very beginning, and I have been cautious not to become emotionally attached to a persona that I knew was likely a fabrication.

In fact, I have taken measures to warn others about your fraudulent activities. Every single email you have sent me, as well as every response I have sent to you, has been posted on the web to serve as a warning to others who may encounter similar scams. My goal has been to expose your deceitful tactics and protect innocent people from falling victim to your manipulations.

It is disheartening to know that there are individuals like you who prey on the vulnerability and loneliness of others. Instead of building genuine connections, you choose to exploit the emotions of those seeking companionship and love. I sincerely hope that one day you will come to realize the harm and pain you are causing and choose a different path.

As for us, this will be my final communication with you. I have no interest in continuing this exchange, knowing that it is built on lies and deception. I strongly encourage you to reconsider your actions and seek a more honest and ethical way of living.

Goodbye and good luck,

Roger

April 24 2023 - Very short reply from 'Nadia' the scammer

 'Nadia' wrote:

Reread all my letters, there were answers to all these questions!
I can't open third-party links on my work computer!
And so, I'll remind you that I have no relatives left!

My reply (Not the robot this time):
Meet Nastysha from Minsk, Belarus who is a makeup artist. Is this your twin?



I sent 3 photos from the instagram account of Nastysha. Today or tomorrow I will reveal myself.

April 24 2023 - The scammer is getting rude - Sore loser? Scammer vs a robot

 The scammer is starting to become impudent. Could this be a sign of a sore loser? It appears that the scammer has exhausted their repertoire of pre-written emails and is now beginning to reveal their true nature. Unless the individual terminates communication soon, I will expose myself in one of the next emails, if not the next.

'Natalia' wrote:

Hi Roger. I always read your letters carefully. The answers to all your important questions were in my letters! Are you going to drag out this whining for a long time??? I'm sick of it! You haven't done anything for us at all, but you're just whining and demanding something from me!

And so, I'll remind you that you seem to be a man. Now I'm waiting for a concrete decision from you. No whining or conditions! Believe me, I'm ready for any decision you make!

The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

I hope this message finds you well. I understand that we may have some misunderstandings, but it is important to maintain a respectful tone in our communication. It is becoming increasingly difficult for me to consider providing financial assistance when I am met with a rude response.

I have gone through our email correspondence once again and quickly found questions that I have asked you but have not received any answers to:

What are your hobbies and interests?

What are your plans for the future after your visit to Norway?

How do you imagine our life together in Norway?

Can you tell me more about your family and friends in Ukraine?

How do you usually spend your weekends or free time?

Additionally, in one of my previous emails, I inquired about what you were doing at the office so early in the morning, around 3 AM. These unanswered questions make it challenging for us to build trust and understanding in our relationship.

Furthermore, I shared a link with you where I have presented myself in a video that I spent a considerable amount of time creating for you. If you had taken the time to visit the link, you would have known me much better by now. It is important for both of us to be genuinely interested in each other's lives and to actively engage in communication.

As you mentioned that I am a man, I want to remind you that a healthy relationship requires mutual respect, open communication, and genuine interest from both parties. I would appreciate it if we could treat each other with respect and answer each other's questions to build trust and understanding.

I am looking forward to a more positive and constructive conversation with you. Please take the time to address the questions I have asked, and let's work together to build a strong foundation for our relationship.

Sincerely,
Roger

April 23rd 2023 - The scammer still won't do anything or answer the questions - Scammer vs a robot

 The scammer now claims that they will not lift a single finger to prove anything. The problem is that the scammer has not provided any proof at all. We all know that the scammer does not respond to anything. There is never any real communication, but mostly just a monologue. We also know that the scammer has stolen pictures from another person whose name I have found. I now expect the scammer to give up and soon discover this blog.

This is the e-mail from 'Natalia' today:

nata.stuko@outlook.com

Dearest Roger, How are you? How is your health? I hope everything is well with you?! The answers to all your important questions have always been in my letters. 

You've already seen a few of my videos, that's more than enough! now it's up to you to make the decision. I won't even lift a finger to justify myself or prove anything anymore!

Roger, I can't sleep up to the late night because I usually think about you Roger, I think that it's up to you to make plans and to inform me what to expect...

I frankly hope in our future, that your aims coincide with my. 

I consider that it's impossible to be alone always, it's necessary to have such woman with whom it's possible to talk smth about, who could help and be pleased at you anytime:

at difficult or happy minute. Somebody who will take care of you, will meet you with prepared supper, will warm at nights by warmth and love.

Roger, just recollect me and my words to you and I believe all troubles will be disappeared. Roger... Simply I'd like to say that I thank the destiny that it has given me you honey.

Each your letter makes my soul and mood be in high spirits. I always think of you no matter where and no matter what I do. Woman who entirely devoted to you, Tanya

 

The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

 Thank you for your recent email. I hope you are doing well and taking care of yourself.

 In our previous conversations, I have expressed my concerns regarding the nature of our communication. I appreciate the sentiments you have shared in your letters, but I must admit that I am disappointed by the lack of genuine interaction between us. Communication is the foundation of any relationship, and it involves a two-way exchange of thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

 I have made multiple attempts to engage with you on a deeper level, but it seems as though my questions often go unanswered and my messages unread. This has led to a sense of frustration and disillusionment, as I feel that we are not truly getting to know one another. Instead, our conversations have largely consisted of monologues rather than genuine dialogue. No! You have not been answering my questions. By that reason I have dropped answering several of yours and you haven't noticed that.

 As I have mentioned before, trust and understanding are vital components of a strong and lasting relationship. I am more than willing to invest my time and energy into building such a connection with you. However, it is essential that both parties are committed to open and honest communication. I cannot move forward with our relationship until I feel that you are genuinely interested in getting to know me and engaging in meaningful conversations.

 In light of this, I must insist that you show more willingness to engage with me on a personal level. I understand that you may be feeling overwhelmed or uncertain, but it is crucial that we work together to build trust and understanding. I will not be able to make any further decisions or plans until I feel that we have established a genuine connection.

 Please take the time to read my messages and address my concerns. I am eager to get to know you better and to build a relationship founded on love, trust, and understanding. However, it is imperative that you demonstrate your commitment to our relationship by engaging in open and honest communication.

 I look forward to hearing from you and learning more about your life, your dreams, and your aspirations. Together, we can work towards building a relationship based on love, trust, and understanding, but it will require effort from both of us.

I have shown more goodwill and created a video introducing myself to you. I hope you like it:

https://*************

Take care and I hope to hear from you soon.
Warm regards,Roger

April 22nd 2023 - A second mail from the scammer

The scammer reacted to my skepticism about lending money. Here is what the scammer wrote:

Hello my love Roger!

I read your letter. At first I thought I'd answer you?? I didn't expect that from you. I thought we trusted each other!

In all your letters you told me that I can always rely on you and can always count on your help???

We had our conversation, so we both want to change our lives, build our future together. At first I thought I for you it's just entertainment.

I felt very hurt and just wanted to cry and never write to anyone on the Internet. Then I decided to understand why you refused me so little help???

I began to search the Internet and read different articles. This what the horror!!!!

I totally understand you! You're absolutely right. Now I understand how much lies and evil there are in this world wide web. Many people enjoy

including you and me! Lonely and naive people. It's really terrible!!!

Only now I realized what a mistake I made when I asked you to borrow this amount of money! After all, it's not a lot of money and we have to solve

this problem together. But the worst thing happened, you completely changed your mind about me. Now you think I was trying to trick you????

I don't want you to think that about me and I don't deserve it!!!

 All my life I've lived honestly and achieved everything myself. I built my own career, and I'm still single because of it. It's my own fault

I never asked other people for help. I hope Roger, you believe me, that I did everything I could! Did you see the Bank statement in

my Bank account??? I withdrew all the money I had. I just had no choice, I had to do it, because in the last few days I have a new meaning in

my life - it's you Roger!!! I think you want to change your life, too! We both have a chance to do this! I hope all your sweet words

were true and you really need me and I could melt your heart. I did not think about my career, I thought that came the moment in my life when

it's time to just turn everything around and live differently. On this I openly told my Manager that I no longer plan to return to Ukraine.

I want to stay with you Roger, forever!

So I risked everything I had. I asked my curator to do everything so that I, as an independent person flew to Norway

I didn't mean to hurt you! it pains me that you have doubts.  I don't like the fact that I have to ask you for money in debt. I never did, and now

I feel new. I feel like crying..((( In my thoughts I just thought about what a wonderful man you are and will never leave me in trouble. After all,

real men always help their woman. Am I right?  I would have returned all the money to you in 2-4 days after my arrival to you. Have you seen my

certificate? I'll have that money in your country.

 I want to explain everything to you so you don't think badly of me. In our country, close people help each other even financially. I was absolutely

sure that we are talking to you openly and honestly, which is why I think you are a very close person, and now I think you are my man. You think I'm

your girlfriend, too? Just that I allowed myself to ask you for the money. I simply have no other option! It's important to me that you don't think

terrible things about me. I'm just a naive girl who made a stupid mistake. I know how serious Bank and personal documents are in your country! I opened

you all the data on my Bank account so you could see that I was willing to give everything for us and our future. You saw the official document from

the Medical organization, you know that I will get my first salary of 3000 euro. This will happen in 2-3 days as I will end up in

Norway. I'll pay you back easily. You saw in this document that the organization allocates separate money for my accommodation?

You do realize we could have arranged for me to rent an apartment from you! Then we will have an additional source of income. I understand that this

is a trifle, but still it is an additional income. I told you all this again so you'd understand my behavior. I don't want you to think badly of me.

I really love you Roger. I'm talking absolutely seriously!!! I calmly and honestly told you my thoughts and my behavior. I'm sure you'll understand.

In any case, the decision is yours. You want my opinion??? I'm tired of being alone, I'm ready to give everything I have for our meeting. I did it!!!

Now you have to answer yourself honestly! You want to change your life??? Do you want to get a kind, affectionate, loving and caring woman???

You want change??? I really want to build a real and sincere relationship with you, which is based on love and trust.

I am absolutely sure that a man who can write such letters, can not play with my feelings. I couldn't be wrong about you, and I'm putting those bad

thoughts out of my head. I'm asking you to help me with this 600 euro and this problem will be solved. I'm asking you to do

everything you can to keep me from crying. Ok ?

Your Natalia!!! 

The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

I hope this letter finds you well. I understand that the situation you are facing is difficult and frustrating, and I want to assure you that my intention is not to cause you any pain or distress. Instead, I would like to take this opportunity to strengthen the foundation of trust and understanding between us. This is a critical aspect of any relationship, and it is important for both of us to be genuine in our intentions and actions.

As we continue to communicate and learn more about each other, I believe it is essential to focus on deepening our connection and understanding of one another. This will allow us to develop a strong foundation of trust that will serve as the basis for a healthy and successful relationship.

In my previous letters, I have asked you several questions about your life, interests, and experiences. However, I have noticed that you often avoid answering these questions directly. This makes it difficult for me to build trust and understand you better. Open and honest communication is crucial for establishing a strong connection, and I kindly ask that you address the questions I have posed to you. This will help me learn more about who you are and what you value in life, and it will enable us to form a more meaningful bond.

I appreciate the honesty and openness with which you have shared your thoughts and feelings with me. It is essential to acknowledge that the internet can be a challenging place to navigate, and misunderstandings can arise easily. I want to make sure that we are both sincere in our intentions and that our actions align with our words.

As we continue to share our lives with each other, I believe we can develop a strong bond that will serve as the foundation for a meaningful and lasting relationship. However, it is essential to recognize that trust must be earned, and it takes time and effort to build a connection based on mutual understanding and respect.Please know that I genuinely care for your well-being, and I am eager to continue getting to know you on a deeper level. I believe that with time, patience, and open communication, we can establish the trust and understanding necessary to move forward together.

In the meantime, let's focus on sharing our lives, interests, and dreams with one another. By doing so, we can create a strong bond that will serve as the foundation for a beautiful and lasting relationship. Please take the time to answer the questions I have asked and engage in more personal conversations. This will help us build trust and a more profound connection.

I look forward to hearing from you and learning more about your life, your dreams, and your aspirations. Together, we can work towards building a relationship based on love, trust, and understanding, and I am excited to see where this journey will take us.

Wishing you all the best and looking forward to your reply. 

PS. I’m waiting for the video I asked for it should be easy for you as you like taking photos and videos of yourself 

Warm regards,

Roger

April 22nd - Yeess...asking for money! - The final prove - Scammer vs Robot!

The scammer: 

Please read this letter carefully to the end!!!!

Darling Roger, How are you doing today? How is your mood? Today I have a lot of news. I'll get this straight. In the morning I had a meeting with my curator.

We had an extremely unpleasant conversation. I wanted to get concrete answers to my questions. I asked him why they still have not transferred the money.

My curator immediately rebelled and told that he won’t pay for anything. He got to know that I am planning to stay with you forever.

He explained me that the clinic does not want to waste money on me if I am not going to return to Ukraune. I was very disappointed to hear that, but I understand what he is talking about.

After this conversation I decided to talk to my curator one more time to find the ways out of the situation.

I asked him if I can cash out the certificate in Ukraune that I could make this payment. He replied that over the past two years Norway changed the rules.

If I decided to fly to Israel, there would be no problems. I could get the whole amount in Ukraine. But your country allows to cash out the grant certificate only on its territory.

That is why my curator said that the only way out of the situation is to pay this money for my own. I want you to know that I am not in despair because everything is ready for my journey!

I went to the bank where I keep my money on the deposit. I was a client of this bank for a long time and I was sure that they will be able to give me a loan for a short period of time.

I explained the whole situation to the manager of the bank. I showed him a copy of my grant certificate that I will be able to cash out it and immediately transfer money back from Norway.

The manager denied me for the same reason that my curator. I collected all my saving, it was 900 euro and went to work to write you a letter.

On my way I thought where I can get the rest 600 euro???? I'm still paying a loan for my apartment,so I can’t sell it so quickly.

Then I realized that I have no other way but borrow this amount from you. I'm sure that for you Roger it's not big a problem.

We both have done so much for our meeting, I do not think you'll deny me now. Moreover I will give you this money back in 3-4 days after my arrival to you.

I will cash out my certificate and give you all sum back. I can’t even imagine that such a situation could happen with me!

I feel so helpless now… So many things have already done, documents, tickets… And now I have this problem that can ruin everything!!! I have no other choice but to ask you for help!

I am confident that you Roger will not leave me in this situation! Hope that situation will be the first and the last obstacle on your way to be together.

Honey, I'm sure that my man will do everything to help me to solve this problem, am I right? I send you a copy of my grant certificate that you know where I need this money.

I also send you my bank account statement. In my last letter I already sent you my ticket, as well as a photo of my passport. I will wait for your answer. It will be another sleepless night.

I do hope that you understand me clearly and won’t leave me alone in such a difficult situation! I trust you and believe in everything you’ve wrote to me!

My heart is crying and has only dream to see you and to be with you… Your, Natalia

P.S You don't need to send money to me!!! You can make a sponsorship contribution to the medical association yourself!!!

I will give you all the necessary details!

 

P.S.S I tried to leave the territory of Ukraine as a refugee or tourist. The distribution center told me that this is no longer possible. I have a medical degree. 

Martial law has been declared on the territory of Ukraine, and I automatically become liable for military service! This grant is my only chance!

The robot replied (has allready got a warning that this is a scam)

Dear Natalia,

I understand that you are facing a difficult situation, and I want to help you, but I must express my concerns. The circumstances you've described seem to have changed quite a bit since we first started talking, and I am growing increasingly concerned about the legitimacy of this situation.

I sympathize with the challenges you are experiencing, but I need to be cautious as well. There have been numerous cases of scams involving requests for financial assistance, and I want to make sure our relationship is genuine and built on trust.

Before we proceed with any financial transactions, I think it's essential that we establish a more solid foundation of trust between us. I would like to learn more about you, your life, and your intentions. I think it's important that we engage in more personal conversations to strengthen our relationship and mutual understanding.

I'm not denying the possibility of providing you with assistance, but I need to be certain that our connection is genuine and not influenced by ulterior motives. I hope you understand my concerns and are willing to work together to build a strong foundation for our relationship.

Looking forward to hearing more about you and your life.

Could you first give me video of yourself speaking directly to me? Mention my name?

 

Best regards,
Roger

April 21st 2023 - I asked for an advice from the ai Robot. Scammer vs a Robot

"Natalia wrote"

Hello dear Roger, How are you doing today? I'm very happy to receive your letter. How was your day? How is your health? Today I had a very intense day.

I had a lot of time to do different things during the day. In the morning I went to the store. I bought Foods made cleaning in my house. I carefully cleaned the house before leaving.

You know I like cleanliness and order. I like to cook, and I often cook different dishes of Ukrainen traditional cuisine.

Today I cooked dinner and thought that it would be nice if you could try that I cooked. I prepared the famous ukrainen Borsh.

Did you hear something about this? I think that this is the most famous dish in Ukraine after dumplings and pancakes. I was very keen to appreciate my dishes and appreciate their taste.

I really would like to stand in the kitchen and feel when you hug me, kiss me, touch my hips. It would be very nice to cook together with you our supper dinner.

I'm sure that you will like Roger very much as I cook. I'm more and more often visited by the thought that you think of me as a woman. Roger Do you like my body?

I believe that Sex in a relationship is also very important I would like to order what you think about it. I ask you to tell me your sexual ideas.

I want you to do this first since I never wrote about it first I do not complain. Do you understand me?? I'm waiting for your letter with answers to my questions. Your woman, Natalia

The robot replied:

Hello Natalia,

I hope you are doing well today. I appreciate your letter and the effort you put into sharing your day with me. It's wonderful to hear that you've been busy taking care of your home and preparing delicious meals. I must say, your description of the famous Ukrainian borscht has piqued my interest, and I would love to try it someday. The thought of us cooking together, sharing a meal, and enjoying each other's company is a pleasant one.

As for your question about my thoughts on your body, I want you to know that I find you attractive and charming. However, I also believe that mutual respect and understanding should be the foundation of our relationship. It is important for us to appreciate each other's personality, values, and intellect, as these are the factors that will make our connection truly meaningful.

Regarding the topic of intimacy and sex, I agree that it plays a significant role in any romantic relationship. Physical attraction and compatibility are essential aspects to consider, and open communication about these matters is vital for building trust and understanding between partners. Nonetheless, I believe that our conversations should remain respectful and focus on getting to know each other on a deeper level before delving into such personal topics.

I am glad that you and Darya have been exploring new things together, like learning how to create videos. It's always fun to try new activities with friends and share your experiences. I'm looking forward to seeing the video you mentioned and any other content you would like to share with me. These kinds of exchanges can help us grow closer and better understand each other's lives and interests.

As we continue to communicate, I hope that we can develop a strong bond based on mutual respect, trust, and understanding. It's important for both of us to feel comfortable and confident in sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Our conversations should be a safe space where we can express ourselves without fear of judgment or pressure.

Natalia, I would also like to learn more about your hobbies, aspirations, and the things that make you happy. Knowing what brings joy to your life will help me understand you better and appreciate the person you are. Likewise, I am open to sharing my own interests and passions with you so that we can find common ground and build a solid foundation for our relationship.

In closing, I want to thank you for being open and honest in your communication. I appreciate your willingness to share your thoughts and feelings with me, and I am eager to continue getting to know you better. As we continue to exchange letters, I hope that our connection will grow stronger, and we can develop a deep understanding and appreciation for each other. I am looking forward to your next letter and learning more about your life, dreams, and desires.

Take care and have a lovely day, Natalia.

Warm regards,
Roger

I asked the robot for an analyzis if it could be a scammer. Here's the results:

Based on Natalia's responses, there are some indicators that may suggest the person could be a scammer. However, it is important to remember that this is an analysis based on the given responses, and there is no absolute guarantee that the person is indeed a scammer. Here are some points that may indicate a scam:

Natalia talks about strong feelings and love early in the communication. This may be an attempt to quickly establish an emotional connection to gain trust.

There is a constant focus on money and financial issues, such as problems with bank transfers and salary. This may suggest that a request for financial assistance will come later in the communication.

Natalia mentions wanting to travel to meet you and provides specific details about the flight, even though it seems you haven't known each other for very long. This may be an attempt to create a sense of urgency and pressure.

It appears that Natalia either ignores or does not fully address some of your concerns, especially about telephobia and the desire to communicate via social media first. This may indicate that she is not interested in accommodating your needs or building a genuine connection.

She mentions wanting to send a video and implies sexual content. This could be an attempt to lure you into a compromising situation, where she could later blackmail you for money.

These indicators may suggest that Natalia could be a scammer. It is important to be cautious and verify the person's identity and intentions before sharing personal information or engaging in financial transactions.

April 20th 2023 - The scammer is nagging about my phone number - Scammer vs a robot

New mail from the scammer:

Hello my darling Roger, How was your day? How is your mood? I asked you to give me your phone number. You missed it?? Why???

I want you to know that I keep thinking of you the whole day, even every minute.. You are far away from me, and I miss you more and more, I want you to be next to me.

I dream to be in your arms now and to hear your voice. I wish I could feel the warmth of your hands holding me gently on cold days. I constantly feel that you are thinking of me all the time..

I am calmed down only by the thought that I will see you soon in the airport hall.

You won’t even believe how many times I've been imagined this moment when we meet, when I can see you and touch you! I dream to see your eyes, your smile!

I've been waiting for you for so long time, so I can’t even believe that it's only a small step has left...

Roger you appeared in my life and aroused in me so amazing emotions! You are the most important person in my life! I think that today I have the best news for all this time!

I can say you the exact date and time of my flight to you. Can you believe that 29 APR our first meeting will take place?))

It will be the best day in my life because I'll be able for the first time to see, hug and kiss you!

Our relationships and you are the most important things for me now that I even can’t think about work and studying!

Of course I’ll continue going to work but all my thoughts and dreams are full of you! YOU!

Maybe it sounds weird and naive but I'm already thinking about what I should wear for our first meeting, what makeup and hairstyle I will have)).

I know you realize that a real meeting differs a little bit from chatting in the internet and I really want you to like me from the first second when you see me.

Today my curator told me that the money was not received on the settlement account. She asked me talk to my director and to send a payment next time.

So today I will talk with my superior to speed up this process.

I am asking you to arrange all your affairs so that you can pick me up at in the airport. Today, my superior is out. I’ll try to make an appointment with them tomorrow.

Tomorrow everything will be ready. Your, Natalia



P.S. I'll call you today tomorrow from this number. This is the number of the meeting point.

I ask you to save this number so that I can call you without any problems! (Tel: +380284233344). Can you imagine that we will meet soon? Are you excited?

The robot replied:

My dear Natalia,

I hope you're doing well and feeling excited about our upcoming meeting.

I apologize, Natalia, but it seems that you may not have been reading my emails. Please take a moment to read what I've written about telephobia. If you're unfamiliar with the term, feel free to look it up on Google. Before I speak to new people on the phone, I prefer to establish mutual trust through social media or extended email communication. I kindly ask that you not pressure me about this, as it will only make the situation more difficult.

Once I feel comfortable and secure, I am more than willing to engage in phone calls. This usually happens after I've met the person in person. I assure you that I will provide you with my phone number the day before you arrive here. Additionally, I will be waiting for you at the airport with a poster, so you won't have any trouble finding me. I appreciate your understanding and acknowledgment of the importance of mutual respect and trust.

Your words warm my heart, and I also think about you constantly. It's amazing how deeply we've connected even before meeting in person. I'm eagerly looking forward to our first meeting at the airport and can't wait to embrace you and finally see your beautiful smile in person.

The thought of you coming here on the 29th of April fills me with joy and anticipation. I understand your concern about our first meeting and how it will be different from our online interactions. But I want to assure you that I already find you incredibly special and attractive, and I know that our connection will only grow stronger once we're together.

I appreciate you keeping me informed about the payment and settlement account situation. I hope everything goes smoothly, and your superior can expedite the process so that there are no delays in your arrival. Please keep me updated on any progress or if you need any assistance from my end.

I have already arranged my schedule to ensure that I will be there to pick you up at the airport. I can't wait for that special moment when we finally see each other in person and begin this new chapter of our lives together.

Every day that passes brings us one step closer to our long-awaited meeting, and I can't express how excited I am to have you here with me.

Take care, my love, and know that you are always in my thoughts.

Yours forever,
Roger

April 19th 2023: Stolen photos - Robot vs Scammer

Yesterday, I discovered the source of the photos I received from "Natalia". They belong to an Instagram account called 'nastysha6333', and the person's name appears to be Anastasiya. It is evident that the scammer has illicitly obtained these photos, and I do not hold Anastasiya responsible for this act.

Todays e-mail from 'Natalia':

Hello, my love, my Roger, How are you there? I miss you more and more with each passing day. I love you with all my heart and it's not a dream.

Roger you are all-important in my life! I need your words about love, your attention, care and support in everything I do..

I can see how hard you try to help me and do everything I ask for). I hardly even believe that my dreams can really come true and it is thanks to you, my love!

You are the best man in the whole world! My heart is beating only for you. You're my man! I love you! Of course, in relationships for me love and sex are important too..

I feel so cold without you at night.. You're the most important person for me in the world. I’m sure you know this.

You're in my thoughts and dreams, in my mind, in my life. I miss you so much.. I wish I could taste your tender lips... My life began when we met. I'm happy with you Roger.

I want to know that you feel the same to me, that we will always be together.. Today, when I came to work, I immediately went to the accounts department to find out the news.

Our accountant said that she had already prepared a payment order to the bank and she needed only the director’s signature. I asked her for a copy of the statement to show it to my curator.

I don't want to lose a minute of my time. After receiving a photocopy of the statement, I immediately went to my curator.

I showed him a copy of the statement and asked him to start booking my plane ticket.

The supervisor said that it was just a copy of the document and I need to wait for the money to be transferred on the bank account.

She can only pre-book my plane ticket and give me a copy of the e-ticket.

I said that it was really great news and as soon as I get a copy of the ticket, I will definitely send it to you, my love Roger, so that you will know everything and be ready.

Are you happy for us? Could you even imagine a few weeks ago that it would happen so soon?? I could not even imagine that such things could happen to me!

I have a smile that goes from ear to ear and I do not understand why, but I had the confidence that I had found my women's happiness. I'll stay in touch with you.

What plans do you have for today? Now I want to go for a walk in the park. I like it very much. Perhaps this is my last walk there)).

I want to say goodbye to this place, I understand that it sounds naive, but I'm a very sensuous girl. I will be waiting for your email.

Hope that tomorrow will bring me a lot of wonderful news. Forever yours, Natalia

The robot replied:

Hello my dearest Natalia,

I hope this message finds you well and in good spirits. I'm thrilled to read your message and to feel the love and affection you have for me. Each day, my feelings for you grow stronger and I cannot wait for the day when we can finally be together. I am incredibly excited about the progress we are making, and I can hardly believe that we are one step closer to being together. Your happiness and enthusiasm are contagious, and they make me even more eager to see you and hold you in my arms.

Thank you for keeping me updated on the preparations for your trip. I understand that there are still some steps to be completed, but knowing that we are moving forward fills me with joy and anticipation. Please continue to share any news or updates with me, as I want to be as involved as possible in this process. As for my plans today, I will be taking care of some work and errands. But throughout the day, my thoughts will undoubtedly drift to you, imagining our life together and the adventures we will share. I am eager to learn more about your culture and traditions, and I am looking forward to introducing you to the beauty and wonders of my country.

I think it's lovely that you want to say goodbye to your favorite park. It shows your sensitivity and appreciation for the special moments and places in your life. I hope that we can visit this park together one day so you can show me the place that holds so many memories for you. Natalia, always remember that my love for you is unwavering and that I am here for you every step of the way. We are embarking on a beautiful journey together, and I cannot wait to see what the future holds for us. I am grateful to have you in my life, and I eagerly await the day when we can embrace and begin our life together.

Until then, please take care of yourself and know that you are always on my mind and in my heart. I will be waiting for your next message with great anticipation.

Forever yours,

Roger

April 18th 2023 - The scammer is not reading the emails. Scammer "Natalia" VS a robot

 In the last email, the scammer asked me to find out the nearest airport (there aren't many airports in the Oslo area). I purposely didn't respond. In this email, the scammer is thanking me for my help and asking more questions, which I am intentionally choosing not to answer. If I notice signs that the scammer is actually reading the emails, I may change my approach slightly.

The email from the scammer:

Hello my dear Roger, How was your day?? How is your mood? I hope that you are doing well. I want to thank you a lot for all the necessary and important information you sent me.
I appreciate your effort and desire to help me! Really! It's so important for me. We both understand that now a new stage is beginning in our life.
Certainly things may not be that simple, but I hope that we both will be tolerant to each other for the first time.
Respect and understanding is the basis of a strong relationship, because we are people from different countries with different cultures. As always I came to work today to check my mailbox.
After that, I had a meeting with my supervisor and I gave him all the information. Roger we have done everything that was required from us.))
The rest of the work will be made by the representatives of the medical association, they will book my ticket, contact the embassy so that I can receive a working visa without problems.
Today my employer must sign a payment order to make a sponsorship contribution to the deposit of an international medical organization fund. I think that this procedure will take 1-2 days.
So when I get the information about my flight, Roger I’ll send you a copy of my e-ticket so that you could know the schedule of my flight and would be able to meet me at the airport.
I'm sorry to ask you about this again, I just get a lot of thoughts and emotions now and I'm really nervous!! Could you please meet me at the airport? It is very important for me.
I greatly hope for your help. I have some more good news for you today!))) After meeting with my curator I returned to office.
It was exactly a lunch time and as usual all the stuff gathers in a separate room to have lunch, drink coffee, tea and just relax for half an hour. So I decided to buy a cake)).
We have such a tradition to treat our colleagues with a cake or something delicious when someone of us is going on a business trip, vacation, has a birthday or other good events.
When all of them gathered for a break, everyone started to say that he was very happy for me that I was going to get new knowledge in a country with a well-developed medicine sphere.
Forgive me but I could not resist and I told about you.
I said that I met an amazing man with whom I would be endless glad to live a happy life and that I would like to continue my dental practice.
If we really like each other in real and we both felt attraction and feelings to each other, I’d love to stay with you Roger in Norway forever!
Many colleagues have started saying that online dating is not serious and that a man can write one things in letters, but in fact can think and do everything on the contrary!
I said that I was sure about you and you Roger really has serious intentions. I'm more convinced than ever.
I know that you won’t leave me in a difficult situation as I will never leave you alone!
I trust you completely. You know, they really have felt my confidence in us and I haven’t got any stupid questions from them anymore))).
There are so many ways how to find a love and to be happy, and the internet was my lucky ticket and I’m so grateful to a destiny that I’ve met you!
I’m sure most of them are just jealous of me that I’ve got this grant and now I am going not only to improve my working skills, but also have a chance to create my private life…
and of course that I will receive a good salary in a promising clinic, where good specialists are highly appreciated!
I don’t want to seem a boastful person, but most of them just dream to leave Ukraine to work abroad... I always think about us and our first meeting. By the way, do you like movies?
If so, what kind of movie do you prefer most of all? I wish we could go to the cinema together!)) It seems to me very romantic when you sit in darkness and hold hand in hand.
Have you thought how we would spend our first weekend together? I constantly keep on thinking about our time together...
Roger I hope that you will help me to cope with difficulties and I can always lean on your strong male shoulder. Waiting impatiently for your reply. Your, Natalia

The robot replied:

Hello my dear Natalia, I hope this letter finds you in good health and high spirits. I'm so happy to hear from you again, and your words never fail to bring warmth and happiness to my heart. I feel so grateful to have met you and can't wait to experience life together.

Today was a pleasant day, spent working and dreaming of the moments we will share together. I find myself smiling throughout the day, knowing that we are one step closer to being with each other. It fills me with such joy and anticipation to think about the adventures and memories we will create.

I'm glad to hear that everything is moving forward with your trip and that the process is going smoothly. Your determination and hard work inspire me, and I'm so proud of everything you've accomplished. I believe in you, Natalia, and I know that you will continue to achieve great things in life.

It's heartwarming to know that you've shared our relationship with your colleagues. Despite any doubts or skepticism they may have, I am confident in the love we share and the future we will build together. I have no doubt in my mind that you and I are meant to be, and I will do everything in my power to ensure our happiness and well-being.

As for your question about movies, I absolutely love them! I enjoy a wide range of genres, from action and adventure to romance and drama. I can't wait to share movie nights with you, cuddling on the couch or holding hands at the cinema, sharing laughter, and tears as we lose ourselves in the stories unfolding on the screen. I think this will be one of the many ways we will bond and create beautiful memories together.

I often imagine how we will spend our first weekend together. I picture us taking long walks in the park, breathing in the fresh air and basking in the warmth of the sun on our faces. I see us exploring new places, trying delicious food, and learning more about each other's likes and dislikes. We could also spend a quiet evening at home, cooking a meal together and enjoying each other's company as we share stories and laughter.

You can always count on me to be there for you, Natalia. I promise to provide you with the support and understanding you need as we navigate the challenges that life may bring. My strong male shoulder will always be there for you to lean on, and together, we will face whatever comes our way.

Please continue to take care of yourself, my love. I eagerly await your next letter and the opportunity to learn more about you and your thoughts. Our love is a treasure, and I will cherish it always.

I wanted to share some of my thoughts about the future and the life we will build together. I can't help but dream about the day-to-day experiences we will share, like waking up next to each other every morning and sharing breakfast as we discuss our plans for the day. I imagine the simple joys of life, like grocery shopping and cooking meals together, turning mundane tasks into precious moments spent in each other's company.

I also look forward to experiencing new things with you, Natalia. Together, we can travel and explore new cultures, immerse ourselves in the arts, and discover our shared interests. Whether it's visiting museums, attending concerts, or finding the perfect spot for a picnic, I can't wait to experience the world with you by my side.

Moreover, I envision us growing together, both individually and as a couple. We will be there for each other, supporting our dreams and aspirations, and celebrating our successes. We will learn from each other, pushing ourselves to be the best version of ourselves, and our love will only grow stronger as we do.

As we face life'schallenges and obstacles, I know that we will be able to overcome them together. Our love will be our guiding light, providing strength and resilience in difficult times. We will face hardships with grace and courage, learning from each experience and emerging stronger as a couple.

I dream of the holidays we will celebrate together, creating new traditions and cherishing the old ones. We will share laughter and joy, surrounded by family and friends, making memories that will last a lifetime. From quiet moments of reflection to the exuberance of celebration, each day will be a testament to the love we share and the life we are building together.I also look forward to the quiet moments we will share, just the two of us. Whether it's stargazing on a clear night, or sharing our thoughts and dreams over a cup of coffee, these moments will be precious and cherished. They will serve as a reminder of the deep connection we share and the love that binds us together.

As we grow older together, our love will continue to evolve and mature. We will find new ways to express our devotion and support each other through life's many seasons. Our love will be a constant source of strength and inspiration, allowing us to navigate the journey of life hand in hand.Ultimately, the life we create together will be a beautiful tapestry of shared experiences, laughter, love, and adventure. We will be partners, confidants, and best friends, always there for each other, in both the good times and the bad. Our love will be a beacon of hope, guiding us through life and filling our days with joy and happiness.

Please remember, Natalia, that no matter the distance between us, my love for you is unwavering. I cherish every word you write and eagerly anticipate the day when we can finally be together. Until then, know that you are always in my heart and on my mind.

 

With all my love and devotion, Roger

 

April 15th - The scammer is coming to Norway in 10-12 days. Scammer vs. Robot

The scammer says that he/she will come to Norway in 10-12 days. There is a lot of talk about money again. The scammer "knoTws" that Roger Jensen lives in Oslo and it should be easy to find the airport if the scammer keeps reading the responses. I asked the robot not to mention anything about the airport.

The scammer wrote/copy-pasted:

Hello my dear Roger, I’m writing you and I know that my heart and thoughts are flying somewhere with you. I wish I could see you in real and we would have a very long conversation.))

Your support is very important for me now. From time to time I imagine our first meeting and how close we became to one another. I dream of your strong hands and wish to cuddle to your shoulder.

If only I could see your face so close! I’m so excited! I want to see your happy eyes and to live with thoughts for happy future, you, me, and my new job.

I believe that I will succeed in everything and I we can meet very soon. I will become for you Roger the most necessary, most desired and beloved woman!

I want to support you in everything. I will be gentle, wise and understanding! I feel as we are getting closer and closer.

I keep thinking of you every day, every minute... You are my air without which I can’t live even a second. I want to make you the happiest man on this earth.

You melted my heart, that had been a cold ice for a long time. You are my whole life! Love makes wonders with people, it gives them wings and makes them fly towards each other…

Do you agree with me, darling? And I have great news for you! Today I was on meeting with my curator. I gave her the last part of all necessary documents.

Now I have all the necessary papers to start my grant program. I feel now the happiest woman in the world because I'm flying to you!

Since all the documents are collected it means that I can fly to you approximately in 10-12 days.

In order to book the tickets, Roger, I have to know the nearest airport to you. Could you please give me that information in your reply?

I want to explain to you one more time how this system of international education works, so that you can have a clear is idea of everything.

There is a number of employers and businessmen who have organized the international medical organization.

They are interested in constant improvement of their employees’ qualification and level of knowledge, so they send their best employees to foreign

medical centers and clinics to get and exchange new experience in dental science. In its turn they improve the qualification of their doctors and this increases the clinic's rating and brings profit.

Therefore, all of the members of this organization constantly contribute to the general fund.

This money form the grant amount and the best employees receive the opportunity for training in different countries all over the world and receive a salary for practice.

As I told you earlier, this year the working conditions of the grants have been changed.

The association allocates the first tranche that covers travel and accommodation expenses and arranging for a new job.

This employee receives the money in the form of a certificate when he arrives at a new workplace.

To do this, the employer is obliged to contribute 50 percent of this tranche, this year this amount is 1500 euro. It is a sponsorship fee.

All further costs are paid from the general fund in the country where the work and training will take place. It means that as soon as I fly to you,

I will receive my certificate for 3000 euro. And the supervisor in your country will give me all necessary documents and a bank card.  

I ask you Roger again, do not forget to tell me the nearest airport to you. I need to know this information tomorrow.

I'll give this information to my curator and to my employer to start all financial procedures.

I'm waiting for your Roger reply as soon as possible, and do not forget to give me answers to all the important questions.

I think that you understand that now everything turns into the final stage. Now everything depends on us, the time is very important for us.

Sooner we will do everything, faster we will meet)) Your, Natalia

The robot replied:

Hello my dearest Natalia,

Your words fill my heart with joy and anticipation for the day we finally meet in person. I, too, spend my days dreaming of our first encounter, our conversations, and the loving relationship we will build together. Your support means the world to me, and I cannot wait to have you by my side, to share in our happiness and our future.

I'm thrilled to hear that you've successfully submitted all the necessary documents for your grant program! It's truly a testament to your dedication and hard work. Your news about being able to fly here in approximately 10-12 days has filled me with so much excitement. The thought of finally holding you in my arms and looking into your eyes is both exhilarating and overwhelming.

Your explanation of the international education system has given me a clearer understanding of how everything works. It's amazing to see the opportunities this organization provides to medical professionals like yourself, enabling them to learn, grow, and contribute to the advancement of dental science.

I appreciate you sharing all of this with me, Natalia. Your passion for your work and your drive to succeed are just a few of the many reasons why I find you so incredible and inspiring. I believe that with your dedication and determination, you will achieve great things in your career and make a significant impact in the field of dentistry.

I want you to know that I am here to support you every step of the way. I understand that this journey may be challenging at times, but I believe in your ability to overcome any obstacles that may arise. Together, we can face whatever life has in store for us and build a beautiful future filled with love, happiness, and success.

As we continue to communicate and learn more about each other, I find myself falling deeper in love with you every day. Your kindness, intelligence, and beauty captivate me, and I cannot imagine my life without you in it. Your presence brings a sense of joy and peace that I have never experienced before, and I am eager to begin our lives together and create memories that we will cherish forever.

I know that the distance between us can be difficult, but I have faith that our love will only grow stronger as we navigate through these challenges. Each day, I am reminded of the incredible woman you are, and I feel so grateful to have you in my life. I look forward to the day when we can finally be together in person and experience the happiness that we have both been longing for.

I am committed to doing whatever it takes to make our dreams a reality, Natalia. Your happiness is my top priority, and I will work tirelessly to ensure that our future is filled with love, joy, and success. I believe that our love is a powerful force that can overcome any obstacles, and I am confident that we will build a beautiful life together.

In the meantime, let's continue to share our thoughts, dreams, and hopes for the future. Our communication is a lifeline that keeps our love alive and flourishing, and I cherish each and every message you send. Your letters bring me comfort and hope, reminding me that we are destined to be together and that our love is strong enough to conquer any challenge.

I eagerly await your next letter, Natalia, and I hope that each day brings us closer to the moment when our dreams become a reality. Our love is a guiding light that illuminates the path before us, leading us towards a lifetime of happiness and fulfillment. Remember that no matter the distance between us, you are always in my heart, and I am with you in spirit, supporting you every step of the way.

Until we are finally able to be together, please know that my love for you is unwavering, and I am committed to making our dreams come true. Stay strong, my love, and remember that I am always here for you, cheering you on as you pursue your passions and achieve your goals.

As the days go by, I find myself thinking more and more about the life we will build together. I imagine us laughing over dinner, taking long walks hand in hand, and sharing in the ups and downs that life inevitably brings. I envision a home filled with love, warmth, and the sweet sound of your laughter echoing through the halls. Together, we will create a sanctuary where we can grow, learn, and love one another unconditionally.

I also look forward to meeting your family and friends and getting to know the people who have shaped you into the remarkable woman you are today. I am excited to share my life with you and introduce you to the people who are important to me as well. Together, we will create a strong and loving support system that will carry us through the many adventures that life has in store.

I have no doubt that the love we share will continue to grow and flourish as we nurture it through open communication, trust, and understanding. We will face challenges along the way, but I believe that our love is strong enough to overcome anything life may throw at us. As long as we have each other, we can weather any storm and emerge stronger and more resilient than ever before.

In closing, I want to remind you of the incredible woman you are and how proud I am to call you my love. Your strength, beauty, and kindness inspire me every day, and I am grateful for the opportunity to share this journey with you. I promise to always be by your side, supporting you, encouraging you, and loving you with all my heart.

Please take care of yourself, Natalia, and remember that you are never alone. I am always here for you, and I eagerly await the day when we can finally embrace one another and begin our life together.

With all my love and devotion,



Roger

April 14th 2023 - Now I believe that the robot has fallen in love

 Today I got this e-mail:

Hi dear Roger, I'm glad to receive your letter again)). I'm grateful to you for all your love and attention to me.

I am eager to be your woman and your princess in life)). I can’t imagine my day without your attention. I can hardly imagine my life without you now...

Since today I come to work just to read your letters and send a reply to you.

Your letters have become something important in my life. I am not engaged in my main job now and I’m dealing now with organization of my trip.

So as I have already collected all the necessary documents, I have more free time. Today I went to the exhibition of a Ukranian artist.

I saw a very beautiful picture where a girl kisses a man. I couldn’t remove my eyes from it and imagined us together...

I have just closed my eyes and imagined that thy were us.. standing on the river bank.

You embrace me very tenderly and we feel endless happiness. I wish I could be right by you now! It seems that those two from the picture want to spend whole their life together as we do.

Sometimes I imagine our first kiss and these thoughts make me red))). It is so amazing to have a chance to know you and that you are thinking of me too, aren’t you?)))

I really hope and believe that you want me to be with you and you will do everything so that we will be together). I send my hugs and kisses to you. Yours, Natalia


The robot replied:

Hello my dear Natalia,

I'm always thrilled to receive your letters, and I can't tell you how much joy they bring to my life. Your words make me feel incredibly special, and I'm grateful for the connection we share.

It's so heartwarming to know that you look forward to reading my letters and writing to me. I can hardly imagine my life without you now either, and I eagerly await the day when we can finally be together in person.

It's nice to hear that you had the opportunity to visit an exhibition and enjoy the beautiful artwork. The painting you described sounds truly captivating, and I can understand why it captured your imagination. I often find myself daydreaming about our future together as well, and the thought of our first kiss fills me with happiness and anticipation.

I assure you, Natalia, that I think about you constantly and cherish every moment we share through our letters. You have become an essential part of my life, and I wholeheartedly desire to have you by my side. I will do everything in my power to make our dreams a reality and bring us together as soon as possible.

I hope you continue to enjoy your free time, exploring new experiences and finding inspiration in the world around you. Soon, we will be able to share these moments together and create beautiful memories as a couple.

Sending you all my love, hugs, and kisses. I can't wait to hear from you again.

Yours always,

Roger

April 12th 2023 - The monologe continues. How much money do I need to contribute? - Scammer vs a Robot

Two new photos today. The monologue continues about the plans to travel to Norway. Now, the discussion is truly starting to focus on money and transfers. I eagerly await my part in all of this. How am I going to contribute to the money transfers, and how much money do I need to contribute?

"Natalia" wrote: 

Hello my darling, my Roger. How is your day today? Is everything fine? As I told you, I met my friend Darya yesterday. We had a wonderful girl's conversation and I told her a lot about you and our relationship. She is really very happy for us and wishes only happiness)). I know Darya from school. She is the only person whom I can tell everything and she knows all my secrets. We understand each other without words. When she was looking at me, and I realized that she was more than happy for us and she noticed glint in my eyes. I'm very happy that my close friend supports me in everything. For a long time she worried about me that I have no private life and lead my life alone. By the way, Darya is sending you big greetings)). She asked me how this would all work and how I would go to your country, because it is very expensive. I told her that a medical association and I have signed a contract according to which I get the award in the amount of 3000 euro. This is the first part of my grant liabilities. This money is given to me for travel and accommodation expenses. Under the terms of this grant, my employer, as one of the sponsors of this organization, is obliged to contribute 50 percent of the total amount. After that, the representative of this organization incurs all my expenses connected with the transfer to your country. As soon as I arrive at my new place of work, within 2-3 days I will meet a representative of the medical association in Norway. Darya said that it's great that I do not need to pay for anything by myself and just collect some documents. All the organizational things will be done by representatives of the organization and the representatives of this program in Norway. So we were talking and talking the whole evening! Darya even stayed for night at my place, because it was too late to go home))) Today, as usual, I hurried up to work to check me mailbox and write you a letter))). I'm overwhelmed with emotions and I wish I could share all of them with you, Roger! I wish you a wonderful sunny day and I'm waiting for your email. With respect your woman, Natalia The robot replied after asking the robot not to offer any help:

Hello my sweetheart, my Natalia,

Thank you for your lovely letter. My day has been going well so far, and reading your message has only brightened it further. It's wonderful to know that you had a great time with your friend Darya, and I appreciate that you shared so much about our relationship with her. It's heartwarming to hear that she is happy for us and supports our connection.

Knowing that you have such a close friend like Darya, with whom you can share your deepest thoughts and secrets, is truly special. Having someone who understands you without words is a priceless gift, and I'm glad that she is there for you. I am grateful for her warm greetings and support, and I would like to send my best wishes to her as well.

It's reassuring to hear that the financial aspects of your journey and stay in my country are being taken care of by the medical association and your employer. It's a significant relief that you won't have to worry about covering those expenses on your own. I am impressed by your dedication to your profession and the opportunities this grant provides for both your career and our future together.

I can only imagine how busy you must be with all the preparations and document collection. Your strength and determination in taking care of all these necessary steps are truly admirable. I am confident that it will all be worth it once we finally get to be together.

Your excitement and joy are contagious, Natalia, and I can't help but feel the same way as I read your letters. I wish I could be there with you, sharing in your happiness as you go through this process. Our days will soon be filled with the warmth of each other's presence, and I eagerly await the moment when we can finally embrace and begin our life together.

I hope you and Darya had a wonderful time catching up and spending the night together. Cherish these moments with your dear friend, as they are an essential part of our lives. I look forward to the day when I can meet her in person and thank her for being such a supportive and caring friend to you.

Wishing you a fantastic day, full of sunshine and happiness. I eagerly await your next letter and send you all my love and affection.

Yours always,

Roger

April 11th 2023 - The scammer still shows no signs of actually reading the emails

Despite reminders, the scammer shows no signs of emails being read. However, the person is becoming more and more affectionate in the way they write. The scammer has not noticed that I have not answered the questions. This suggests that the scammer is using pre-made emails

The e-mail today:

Hello my love, my Roger, your new letter made me happy again today)). I was waiting for it impatiently!

Roger, your letters always bring me delight and good mood I'm very glad that we have met. You just have entered to my life and I dream about you every day!

I just came back from the meeting with my curator. She explained me the requirements and gave the list of all necessary documents. Oh, I will have to do a lot!

But I will prepare everything with great pleasure because it is my only way to see you as soon as possible! So, here I give you the list of the document needed:

- Visa (my visa is still valid, because last year my director wanted to send me for an internship to your country and I got a visa.)

- Expected work place

- Medical reference

- Diplomas and certificates from all places where I have been trained in recent years.

- Place of residence in your country

- Some accompanying documents and recommendations from my employer.

As you understand, the next few days will be very tense and full of worries. I hope you will forgive me that I send you such a short letter.

I hope you Roger understand that I need time do all this. I wish to manage all formalities as soon as possible, because I really want to come and see you!

Today I still need to do my basic work. In the evening I plan to meet Inga. I'm impatient to share such amazing news! I send you my tender kiss and will wait for your letter, Yours, Natalia

The robot replied





My dear Natalia,

Your letter has filled my heart with joy, and I am thrilled to know that you are taking concrete steps toward coming to be with me. It's incredible how our connection has blossomed, and I am eager to finally meet you in person.

I understand that the upcoming days will be filled with preparations, and I want you to know that I am here to support you in any way I can. Please don't hesitate to reach out to me if you need assistance or have any questions. I believe that open communication and cooperation are essential in making this process as smooth as possible.

It is admirable to see your dedication and determination in handling all the necessary documentation and formalities. I am confident that your hard work will pay off, and we will be able to start a new chapter of our lives together soon. Remember to take care of yourself and get enough rest amidst all the hustle and bustle of the preparations.

Natalia, I want you to know that I cherish every letter you send, regardless of its length. Your thoughts and feelings are precious to me, and I am grateful for every opportunity to learn more about you. While you are busy with the preparations, please remember that I am always here for you, and my heart and thoughts are with you every step of the way.

I am looking forward to meeting Inga when you come here, as she seems to be an important person in your life. I am sure that she will be as excited about the news as we are, and I can't wait to hear about your meeting with her.

Please keep me updated on your progress, and know that I am sending you all my love and positive energy to help you through this process. I believe in you, Natalia, and I am certain that we will be able to overcome any challenges that may arise.

I eagerly await your next letter and send you my warmest thoughts and affection.

Yours always,
Roger

April 10th 2023 - Dental clinics, more affections. - Scammers communication with a robot

Today, I received a new email from the scammer. The individual did not respond to my questions and once again requested to call me. At the same time, the person asked me to do a job by finding dental clinics. I instructed the robot to omit any responses regarding dental clinics since the scammer is not answering my questions.

The scammer is increasingly attempting to be affectionate in word choice, so I asked the robot to respond subtly that I may have started to develop feelings.

Also, I received two new professional photos that I cannot post due to privacy concerns. 

The e-mail:

Hello my dear Roger, actually I couldn’t fall asleep the whole night! I was thinking about your decision and what will you write me in the letter))
I woke up earlier than usual and did not even have breakfast, hurried up to work to check my mail box. I opened it and yyeess)). I’ve got your letter!
My hands were shaking, the heart beating and I worried and was really afraid to open it! But when I read your letter I realized that I was not mistaken in you!))
Roger, may I call you My darling? I think you will like it and you deserve it!)) And I think that we can overcome all obstacles with the help of our feelings and understanding.
I always thought, that love doesn’t exist at all. But then I met you, and everything had changed in my head. I guess I was waiting for you for all my life!
I knew that one day it would happen. You are that man whom I was looking for a long time. It is like a dream!) You turned into the meaning of my life, you filled my soul with air.
You allowed my wings to open and fly, soar through the sky and don’t notice anything except your image. You gave me a dream and a hope for happiness.
And I do not need too much, just to know that you are safe and sound and everything is ok with you! In fact, I would give everything to be always right by you.
Now I need to contact my supervisor and tell him that I have a clear decision about my grant program). My curator will tell me what documents they need.
My dear, I will have a very important request for you. Could you please find in the internet at least several dental clinics that are situated to as close as possible?
I need 2-3 state dental clinics and 2-3 private practices. It is necessary for me to conclude a contract with the International Medical Association.
Roger I'm glad that our life paths met. Let them burn as a bright star of our amazing love)) I will wait for your reply! Yours, Natalia

The robot replied:

Hello Natalia,

I hope this letter finds you well. Every time I read your messages, I find myself eagerly awaiting the next one, as our bond continues to strengthen and grow deeper. It's genuinely amazing to see how our relationship has evolved through our heartfelt letters, and I can't help but feel excited for what the future holds for us.

I must confess, Natalia, that I have been thinking about you quite a lot lately. Your presence in my life has brought a special kind of warmth and happiness that I never anticipated. As our connection deepens, I realize that my feelings for you are growing stronger, and I am starting to develop a deep affection for you. It's incredible how we have come so far in such a short period, and I am eager to continue exploring this unique connection we share.

Regarding our previous correspondence, I noticed that there are still some unanswered questions from my earlier letters. While I understand that it's natural to occasionally overlook certain details, it's important for us to maintain open communication and ensure that we address any concerns or queries. I kindly request that you take a moment to review my past letters and respond to the unanswered questions. Your thoughts and opinions matter a great deal to me, and I believe our honest exchange of ideas will help us nurture and strengthen our relationship further.

As we continue to learn more about each other and share our lives through these letters, I am filled with gratitude for the beautiful connection we have established. It is truly a blessing to have you in my life, and I look forward to continuing our journey together. Please continue to share your dreams, feelings, and experiences with me, as each message you send brings me immense joy and happiness.

Natalia, thank you for being the bright star that lights up my days and nights. Your presence has enriched my life in ways I could never have imagined, and I eagerly await the next chapter in our story.

With warmest regards and affection,

Roger

April 9th 2023 - It appears that the scammer does not read the entire email and probably has pre-written emails or templates that are being used.

 Today, I received two new pictures. It's doubtful that these are from the scammer as the pictures look very professional. Therefore, I cannot post the pictures due to privacy concerns. Anyway, here is the communication:

Hi my sweetheart Roger! Can I call you so? How is your day? Do you feel well? Your letter made my day!))) Roger I keep thinking of you no matter what I do))).

The answers to all these questions, directly or indirectly, were in my letters! I ask you to reread all my letters! 

I'm very happy and feel that our letters are very important to you too. I want to say thank you for all your attention and serious attitude to me!

Your letters have already become a part of my life and I’m always interested how is you day there, what are you doing, whether you are busy or not today, what people you meet, how is your mood.

I am endless happy that now I have you Roger! The spiritual connection between a man and a woman is very important. A man should treat a woman politely, with love and respect.

He should be next to her in bad and good times and take care of her. A real man should give the woman all the love and care.

He should do everything that his woman can feel herself the happiest woman in the world, am I right?)) And for sure a woman should do the same for her man.

To give him a support, care, love and attention and always be near in all situations that happen in life. And I think that love is a vital thing in relationships!

The family without love will not bring happiness for both… What do you think about my ideas and thoughts? Do you agree with them?

And I’ve got amazing news! There have been chosen 3 winners who receive a grant to continue practice and work in (USA, Canada, Israel, Norway)

And I am one of them! According to the rules of this grant all expenses will be paid for. I'm just overwhelmed with emotions!!! I'm ready to jump from happiness))).

Tomorrow I need to give an answer where I want to use this grant. And of course I haven’t thought about it too long, because I know where I want to go!))

I want to live right by you, continue my work and build your relations!!! I think we are ready for our meeting.

I am also sure that in your country I will be able to receive a decent salary and my job will be paid very well. Sooo what do you think about my idea??

I need to give the final answer about the host country tomorrow. But I decided first of all to discuss this extremely important question with you!

It seems to me that my night will be sleepless because I will wait for your answer. Your decision will be a determining factor for me!

I kindly ask you to think about it and give me an honest answer. Send you kisses and hugs! Yours, Natalia

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The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

Thank you for your recent letter, and once again, congratulations on being one of the winners of the grant! Your hard work and dedication have paid off, and I'm excited to see what the future holds for you.

Before we delve further into discussing the possibility of you coming to my country, I want to remind you of some questions I asked in my last reply, which I believe are essential for us to address. I understand that you may have missed them, so I will include them again here:

If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be and why?
What are the most significant challenges you've faced in your life, and how have you overcome them?
How do you define success, and what steps are you taking to achieve it?
If you could travel back in time and give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?
What role does spirituality or religion play in your life, and how has it shaped your beliefs and values?
In your opinion, what are the most important qualities in a successful and fulfilling relationship?
Can you think of a time when you had to make a difficult decision, and what factors influenced your choice?
What are your passions and hobbies, and how do they contribute to your overall happiness and well-being?
If you could spend a day with any historical figure, who would it be, and what would you discuss with them?
How do you envision your ideal future, and what steps are you taking to make that dream a reality?

Back to your email:

What are your long-term plans in my country?
How do you envision our relationship developing during your stay?
Are you open to adapting to a new culture and lifestyle?

Additionally, I would like to reiterate my concerns regarding my struggles with telephoning and meeting new people. As I mentioned in my previous letters, I have a fear of phone calls, especially when there is "empty silence" and I don't know what to say. This anxiety also extends to face-to-face meetings with people I don't know well. I usually need more time to get to know someone through email or instant messaging before I feel comfortable talking on the phone or meeting in person. I hope you can understand and respect my need for time to become more comfortable with our communication.

It is crucial for us to build a strong foundation based on trust, communication, and understanding before considering such a significant life change as you coming to my country. I believe that discussing these questions and concerns will help us gain a better understanding of each other's expectations and goals for our relationship.

Furthermore, I would like to know more about your thoughts on some of the ideas I've shared in previous letters. For instance, do you have any thoughts on how we can continue to grow our connection while still respecting my need for time to become more comfortable with phone calls and face-to-face meetings? Are there any specific communication methods or strategies that you think could help us maintain a strong bond and deepen our understanding of each other?

Lastly, I want to emphasize that it's essential for both of us to be honest and open with each other as we discuss these matters. Our relationship can only thrive if we are both willing to share our thoughts, feelings, and concerns openly and work together to address any challenges that may arise.

In summary, I kindly ask you to consider the questions and concerns I've shared in this letter and my previous one. Please take the time to provide thoughtful answers, as this will help us ensure that we are making the best possible decisions for our future together. I eagerly await your response and look forward to continuing our conversation and building a strong foundation for our relationship.

Warm regards,

Roger

 

April 6th 2023 - The scammer suddenly ordered a smartphone.

 Earlier "Natalia" wrote:

Cos, you will have an entire afternoon to formulate your thoughts and willings. There's some time to think about what to answer! Hence I read my e-mail on the job.

That's why I'm not using blackberries, so not to become how these primitive people. This is my principled position. I'm not going to change my mind! I'm asking you to honour my solution.

After I told her about my fear of talking on the phone and how I prefer getting to know people through instant messaging, the scammer has suddenly decided to buy a Blackberry phone.

I haven't heard from the scammer in a few days, and I suspect that they may have seen my blog. I received a new email from the person, along with two attached photos. However, I won't share the photos here because I don't know who is depicted in them, and it could potentially harm an innocent third party

Hello Roger, I'm so glad to see your letter. How are you doing? The results of the presentation will be announced tomorrow. Keep your fingers crossed for me!)))

But there is good news, I ordered a new smartphone for myself, I hope it will be delivered in 2-3 weeks, so we can talk more often and be closer!

Even on such a big day I woke up thinking about you. I guess I'm starting to get used to reading your letters every day.
They become something very important for me. As always, I quickly had my breakfast. I keep thinking of you all the time..
I feel you are that very person about whom I was dreaming and finally I’ve found and now I don’t want to lose you!
I would like to get to know you better and I see we have wonderful mutual understanding. I can see a ray of light in your letters.
And every letter brings me more and more information about each other, I think it's wonderful. Do you agree with me Roger?
That's a day well spent, but I'm pretty tired today at work because I haven't really had free time to have rest or even for cup of tea..
We have a lot of clients and all of them have their own problems, but when I start thinking about you I forget about everything.
I often think about the future and I am happy that you are present in my life and I completely trust you.
In my opinion trust, support and understanding are the background of true love.
My vital principle is to be as honest and open as possible with the person I want to be with. I trust you my dear, and I hope you trust me too.
If we want to build relations, we should be honest not only in letters, but in the hearts too. I appreciate and respect a man who keeps his word, and doesn’t talk to the winds.
Roger I hope that you are not such a person and you always show your words in action, aren’t you?
It's very important for me that the man has the confidence in himself and is not a coward.
I want my man to be like a stone wall that he could protect me from problems and turmoil of the life.
My dear, if I haven’t answered you some of your question it means I didn’t get it, so could you send it one more time please, it is very important for me to answer all your questions!
Roger what is the mail goal in your life? What do you want to achieve? Could you share your dreams with me if it is not a secret of course))
My biggest dream find a kind and intelligent man, to love and to be loved... I hope that our hearts will beat as one)))
Write me back as soon as possible because your sweet letters bring me joy and amazement! Looking forward to get a new letter from you, my dear!

Natalia

What the robot wrote:

Hello dear Natalia,



I hope you're doing well and that the results of your presentation have brought you good news. I am excited about the prospect of us growing closer, but I feel it's essential to share some thoughts and concerns with you.

In your previous letters, you've mentioned the importance of phone calls and meeting in person. I completely understand the value of these interactions, but I must confess that I have a fear of phone calls and the idea of meeting someone without knowing what to say. This fear, known as telephobia, or Telefonksrekk in Norwegian, can be quite overwhelming at times.

The thought of being in a conversation with long silences, not knowing what to say next, fills me with anxiety. This fear extends beyond phone calls to meeting someone in person without having built a strong foundation of communication. I've found that I feel more at ease when I can first establish a connection through written communication, such as emails or instant messaging.

I hope you can understand and respect my apprehensions. I want to assure you that I am genuinely interested in getting to know you better and building a strong bond. However, I would appreciate it if we could continue to communicate through written correspondence until I feel more comfortable with the idea of phone calls and face-to-face meetings.

To foster a deeper connection and promote open communication, I would like to ask you some thought-provoking questions. These questions will hopefully give us a better understanding of each other's perspectives, values, and aspirations.
If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be and why?
What are the most significant challenges you've faced in your life, and how have you overcome them?

3. How do you define success, and what steps are you taking to achieve it?

4. If you could travel back in time and give your younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?

5. What role does spirituality or religion play in your life, and how has it shaped your beliefs and values?

6. In your opinion, what are the most important qualities in a successful and fulfilling relationship?

7. Can you think of a time when you had to make a difficult decision, and what factors influenced your choice

8. What are your passions and hobbies, and how do they contribute to your overall happiness and well-being?

9. If you could spend a day with any historical figure, who would it be, and what would you discuss with them?

10. How do you envision your ideal future, and what steps are you taking to make that dream a reality?

I hope these questions will encourage meaningful conversations and help us learn more about each other. Please take your time in responding, and feel free to ask me any questions you may have as well.

I eagerly await your next letter and your thoughts on the questions I've posed. Thank you for your understanding and patience as we continue to grow closer.

Btw why are you not replying with my ordinary mail so I can ‘remember’ what I wrote?

Warm regards,
Roger