April 24 2023 - The Truth Revealed

Subject: The Truth Revealed

to: nata.stuko@outlook.com
Dear "Natalia,"

I hope this message finds you well, or rather, the person who is hiding behind the name and persona of Natalia. I am writing this email to inform you that I am well aware of your fraudulent intentions and the scam you are trying to perpetrate. I must admit, you have put forth a significant effort, but your charade has not fooled me.

From the very beginning, I have had my suspicions about your authenticity. As we exchanged emails, it became more and more evident that you were not who you claimed to be. The stolen photos from an Instagram account, the vague and evasive answers to my questions, the fact that you never provided me with my original email when I requested it, and the oddity of you sending emails from your office at 3 am Ukrainian time - all these factors pointed towards the uncomfortable truth that you are a scammer.

Furthermore, I believe that every email you sent me was prefabricated, which explains why you never genuinely addressed my inquiries. As a result, an astounding 96% of our communication was written by a robot on my behalf, making our entire exchange feel contrived and artificial.

I want you to know that I have never been in love with "Natalia." My suspicions were raised from the very beginning, and I have been cautious not to become emotionally attached to a persona that I knew was likely a fabrication.

In fact, I have taken measures to warn others about your fraudulent activities. Every single email you have sent me, as well as every response I have sent to you, has been posted on the web to serve as a warning to others who may encounter similar scams. My goal has been to expose your deceitful tactics and protect innocent people from falling victim to your manipulations.

It is disheartening to know that there are individuals like you who prey on the vulnerability and loneliness of others. Instead of building genuine connections, you choose to exploit the emotions of those seeking companionship and love. I sincerely hope that one day you will come to realize the harm and pain you are causing and choose a different path.

As for us, this will be my final communication with you. I have no interest in continuing this exchange, knowing that it is built on lies and deception. I strongly encourage you to reconsider your actions and seek a more honest and ethical way of living.

Goodbye and good luck,

Roger

April 24 2023 - Very short reply from 'Nadia' the scammer

 'Nadia' wrote:

Reread all my letters, there were answers to all these questions!
I can't open third-party links on my work computer!
And so, I'll remind you that I have no relatives left!

My reply (Not the robot this time):
Meet Nastysha from Minsk, Belarus who is a makeup artist. Is this your twin?



I sent 3 photos from the instagram account of Nastysha. Today or tomorrow I will reveal myself.

April 24 2023 - The scammer is getting rude - Sore loser? Scammer vs a robot

 The scammer is starting to become impudent. Could this be a sign of a sore loser? It appears that the scammer has exhausted their repertoire of pre-written emails and is now beginning to reveal their true nature. Unless the individual terminates communication soon, I will expose myself in one of the next emails, if not the next.

'Natalia' wrote:

Hi Roger. I always read your letters carefully. The answers to all your important questions were in my letters! Are you going to drag out this whining for a long time??? I'm sick of it! You haven't done anything for us at all, but you're just whining and demanding something from me!

And so, I'll remind you that you seem to be a man. Now I'm waiting for a concrete decision from you. No whining or conditions! Believe me, I'm ready for any decision you make!

The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

I hope this message finds you well. I understand that we may have some misunderstandings, but it is important to maintain a respectful tone in our communication. It is becoming increasingly difficult for me to consider providing financial assistance when I am met with a rude response.

I have gone through our email correspondence once again and quickly found questions that I have asked you but have not received any answers to:

What are your hobbies and interests?

What are your plans for the future after your visit to Norway?

How do you imagine our life together in Norway?

Can you tell me more about your family and friends in Ukraine?

How do you usually spend your weekends or free time?

Additionally, in one of my previous emails, I inquired about what you were doing at the office so early in the morning, around 3 AM. These unanswered questions make it challenging for us to build trust and understanding in our relationship.

Furthermore, I shared a link with you where I have presented myself in a video that I spent a considerable amount of time creating for you. If you had taken the time to visit the link, you would have known me much better by now. It is important for both of us to be genuinely interested in each other's lives and to actively engage in communication.

As you mentioned that I am a man, I want to remind you that a healthy relationship requires mutual respect, open communication, and genuine interest from both parties. I would appreciate it if we could treat each other with respect and answer each other's questions to build trust and understanding.

I am looking forward to a more positive and constructive conversation with you. Please take the time to address the questions I have asked, and let's work together to build a strong foundation for our relationship.

Sincerely,
Roger

April 23rd 2023 - The scammer still won't do anything or answer the questions - Scammer vs a robot

 The scammer now claims that they will not lift a single finger to prove anything. The problem is that the scammer has not provided any proof at all. We all know that the scammer does not respond to anything. There is never any real communication, but mostly just a monologue. We also know that the scammer has stolen pictures from another person whose name I have found. I now expect the scammer to give up and soon discover this blog.

This is the e-mail from 'Natalia' today:

nata.stuko@outlook.com

Dearest Roger, How are you? How is your health? I hope everything is well with you?! The answers to all your important questions have always been in my letters. 

You've already seen a few of my videos, that's more than enough! now it's up to you to make the decision. I won't even lift a finger to justify myself or prove anything anymore!

Roger, I can't sleep up to the late night because I usually think about you Roger, I think that it's up to you to make plans and to inform me what to expect...

I frankly hope in our future, that your aims coincide with my. 

I consider that it's impossible to be alone always, it's necessary to have such woman with whom it's possible to talk smth about, who could help and be pleased at you anytime:

at difficult or happy minute. Somebody who will take care of you, will meet you with prepared supper, will warm at nights by warmth and love.

Roger, just recollect me and my words to you and I believe all troubles will be disappeared. Roger... Simply I'd like to say that I thank the destiny that it has given me you honey.

Each your letter makes my soul and mood be in high spirits. I always think of you no matter where and no matter what I do. Woman who entirely devoted to you, Tanya

 

The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

 Thank you for your recent email. I hope you are doing well and taking care of yourself.

 In our previous conversations, I have expressed my concerns regarding the nature of our communication. I appreciate the sentiments you have shared in your letters, but I must admit that I am disappointed by the lack of genuine interaction between us. Communication is the foundation of any relationship, and it involves a two-way exchange of thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

 I have made multiple attempts to engage with you on a deeper level, but it seems as though my questions often go unanswered and my messages unread. This has led to a sense of frustration and disillusionment, as I feel that we are not truly getting to know one another. Instead, our conversations have largely consisted of monologues rather than genuine dialogue. No! You have not been answering my questions. By that reason I have dropped answering several of yours and you haven't noticed that.

 As I have mentioned before, trust and understanding are vital components of a strong and lasting relationship. I am more than willing to invest my time and energy into building such a connection with you. However, it is essential that both parties are committed to open and honest communication. I cannot move forward with our relationship until I feel that you are genuinely interested in getting to know me and engaging in meaningful conversations.

 In light of this, I must insist that you show more willingness to engage with me on a personal level. I understand that you may be feeling overwhelmed or uncertain, but it is crucial that we work together to build trust and understanding. I will not be able to make any further decisions or plans until I feel that we have established a genuine connection.

 Please take the time to read my messages and address my concerns. I am eager to get to know you better and to build a relationship founded on love, trust, and understanding. However, it is imperative that you demonstrate your commitment to our relationship by engaging in open and honest communication.

 I look forward to hearing from you and learning more about your life, your dreams, and your aspirations. Together, we can work towards building a relationship based on love, trust, and understanding, but it will require effort from both of us.

I have shown more goodwill and created a video introducing myself to you. I hope you like it:

https://*************

Take care and I hope to hear from you soon.
Warm regards,Roger

April 22nd 2023 - A second mail from the scammer

The scammer reacted to my skepticism about lending money. Here is what the scammer wrote:

Hello my love Roger!

I read your letter. At first I thought I'd answer you?? I didn't expect that from you. I thought we trusted each other!

In all your letters you told me that I can always rely on you and can always count on your help???

We had our conversation, so we both want to change our lives, build our future together. At first I thought I for you it's just entertainment.

I felt very hurt and just wanted to cry and never write to anyone on the Internet. Then I decided to understand why you refused me so little help???

I began to search the Internet and read different articles. This what the horror!!!!

I totally understand you! You're absolutely right. Now I understand how much lies and evil there are in this world wide web. Many people enjoy

including you and me! Lonely and naive people. It's really terrible!!!

Only now I realized what a mistake I made when I asked you to borrow this amount of money! After all, it's not a lot of money and we have to solve

this problem together. But the worst thing happened, you completely changed your mind about me. Now you think I was trying to trick you????

I don't want you to think that about me and I don't deserve it!!!

 All my life I've lived honestly and achieved everything myself. I built my own career, and I'm still single because of it. It's my own fault

I never asked other people for help. I hope Roger, you believe me, that I did everything I could! Did you see the Bank statement in

my Bank account??? I withdrew all the money I had. I just had no choice, I had to do it, because in the last few days I have a new meaning in

my life - it's you Roger!!! I think you want to change your life, too! We both have a chance to do this! I hope all your sweet words

were true and you really need me and I could melt your heart. I did not think about my career, I thought that came the moment in my life when

it's time to just turn everything around and live differently. On this I openly told my Manager that I no longer plan to return to Ukraine.

I want to stay with you Roger, forever!

So I risked everything I had. I asked my curator to do everything so that I, as an independent person flew to Norway

I didn't mean to hurt you! it pains me that you have doubts.  I don't like the fact that I have to ask you for money in debt. I never did, and now

I feel new. I feel like crying..((( In my thoughts I just thought about what a wonderful man you are and will never leave me in trouble. After all,

real men always help their woman. Am I right?  I would have returned all the money to you in 2-4 days after my arrival to you. Have you seen my

certificate? I'll have that money in your country.

 I want to explain everything to you so you don't think badly of me. In our country, close people help each other even financially. I was absolutely

sure that we are talking to you openly and honestly, which is why I think you are a very close person, and now I think you are my man. You think I'm

your girlfriend, too? Just that I allowed myself to ask you for the money. I simply have no other option! It's important to me that you don't think

terrible things about me. I'm just a naive girl who made a stupid mistake. I know how serious Bank and personal documents are in your country! I opened

you all the data on my Bank account so you could see that I was willing to give everything for us and our future. You saw the official document from

the Medical organization, you know that I will get my first salary of 3000 euro. This will happen in 2-3 days as I will end up in

Norway. I'll pay you back easily. You saw in this document that the organization allocates separate money for my accommodation?

You do realize we could have arranged for me to rent an apartment from you! Then we will have an additional source of income. I understand that this

is a trifle, but still it is an additional income. I told you all this again so you'd understand my behavior. I don't want you to think badly of me.

I really love you Roger. I'm talking absolutely seriously!!! I calmly and honestly told you my thoughts and my behavior. I'm sure you'll understand.

In any case, the decision is yours. You want my opinion??? I'm tired of being alone, I'm ready to give everything I have for our meeting. I did it!!!

Now you have to answer yourself honestly! You want to change your life??? Do you want to get a kind, affectionate, loving and caring woman???

You want change??? I really want to build a real and sincere relationship with you, which is based on love and trust.

I am absolutely sure that a man who can write such letters, can not play with my feelings. I couldn't be wrong about you, and I'm putting those bad

thoughts out of my head. I'm asking you to help me with this 600 euro and this problem will be solved. I'm asking you to do

everything you can to keep me from crying. Ok ?

Your Natalia!!! 

The robot replied:

Dear Natalia,

I hope this letter finds you well. I understand that the situation you are facing is difficult and frustrating, and I want to assure you that my intention is not to cause you any pain or distress. Instead, I would like to take this opportunity to strengthen the foundation of trust and understanding between us. This is a critical aspect of any relationship, and it is important for both of us to be genuine in our intentions and actions.

As we continue to communicate and learn more about each other, I believe it is essential to focus on deepening our connection and understanding of one another. This will allow us to develop a strong foundation of trust that will serve as the basis for a healthy and successful relationship.

In my previous letters, I have asked you several questions about your life, interests, and experiences. However, I have noticed that you often avoid answering these questions directly. This makes it difficult for me to build trust and understand you better. Open and honest communication is crucial for establishing a strong connection, and I kindly ask that you address the questions I have posed to you. This will help me learn more about who you are and what you value in life, and it will enable us to form a more meaningful bond.

I appreciate the honesty and openness with which you have shared your thoughts and feelings with me. It is essential to acknowledge that the internet can be a challenging place to navigate, and misunderstandings can arise easily. I want to make sure that we are both sincere in our intentions and that our actions align with our words.

As we continue to share our lives with each other, I believe we can develop a strong bond that will serve as the foundation for a meaningful and lasting relationship. However, it is essential to recognize that trust must be earned, and it takes time and effort to build a connection based on mutual understanding and respect.Please know that I genuinely care for your well-being, and I am eager to continue getting to know you on a deeper level. I believe that with time, patience, and open communication, we can establish the trust and understanding necessary to move forward together.

In the meantime, let's focus on sharing our lives, interests, and dreams with one another. By doing so, we can create a strong bond that will serve as the foundation for a beautiful and lasting relationship. Please take the time to answer the questions I have asked and engage in more personal conversations. This will help us build trust and a more profound connection.

I look forward to hearing from you and learning more about your life, your dreams, and your aspirations. Together, we can work towards building a relationship based on love, trust, and understanding, and I am excited to see where this journey will take us.

Wishing you all the best and looking forward to your reply. 

PS. I’m waiting for the video I asked for it should be easy for you as you like taking photos and videos of yourself 

Warm regards,

Roger

April 22nd - Yeess...asking for money! - The final prove - Scammer vs Robot!

The scammer: 

Please read this letter carefully to the end!!!!

Darling Roger, How are you doing today? How is your mood? Today I have a lot of news. I'll get this straight. In the morning I had a meeting with my curator.

We had an extremely unpleasant conversation. I wanted to get concrete answers to my questions. I asked him why they still have not transferred the money.

My curator immediately rebelled and told that he won’t pay for anything. He got to know that I am planning to stay with you forever.

He explained me that the clinic does not want to waste money on me if I am not going to return to Ukraune. I was very disappointed to hear that, but I understand what he is talking about.

After this conversation I decided to talk to my curator one more time to find the ways out of the situation.

I asked him if I can cash out the certificate in Ukraune that I could make this payment. He replied that over the past two years Norway changed the rules.

If I decided to fly to Israel, there would be no problems. I could get the whole amount in Ukraine. But your country allows to cash out the grant certificate only on its territory.

That is why my curator said that the only way out of the situation is to pay this money for my own. I want you to know that I am not in despair because everything is ready for my journey!

I went to the bank where I keep my money on the deposit. I was a client of this bank for a long time and I was sure that they will be able to give me a loan for a short period of time.

I explained the whole situation to the manager of the bank. I showed him a copy of my grant certificate that I will be able to cash out it and immediately transfer money back from Norway.

The manager denied me for the same reason that my curator. I collected all my saving, it was 900 euro and went to work to write you a letter.

On my way I thought where I can get the rest 600 euro???? I'm still paying a loan for my apartment,so I can’t sell it so quickly.

Then I realized that I have no other way but borrow this amount from you. I'm sure that for you Roger it's not big a problem.

We both have done so much for our meeting, I do not think you'll deny me now. Moreover I will give you this money back in 3-4 days after my arrival to you.

I will cash out my certificate and give you all sum back. I can’t even imagine that such a situation could happen with me!

I feel so helpless now… So many things have already done, documents, tickets… And now I have this problem that can ruin everything!!! I have no other choice but to ask you for help!

I am confident that you Roger will not leave me in this situation! Hope that situation will be the first and the last obstacle on your way to be together.

Honey, I'm sure that my man will do everything to help me to solve this problem, am I right? I send you a copy of my grant certificate that you know where I need this money.

I also send you my bank account statement. In my last letter I already sent you my ticket, as well as a photo of my passport. I will wait for your answer. It will be another sleepless night.

I do hope that you understand me clearly and won’t leave me alone in such a difficult situation! I trust you and believe in everything you’ve wrote to me!

My heart is crying and has only dream to see you and to be with you… Your, Natalia

P.S You don't need to send money to me!!! You can make a sponsorship contribution to the medical association yourself!!!

I will give you all the necessary details!

 

P.S.S I tried to leave the territory of Ukraine as a refugee or tourist. The distribution center told me that this is no longer possible. I have a medical degree. 

Martial law has been declared on the territory of Ukraine, and I automatically become liable for military service! This grant is my only chance!

The robot replied (has allready got a warning that this is a scam)

Dear Natalia,

I understand that you are facing a difficult situation, and I want to help you, but I must express my concerns. The circumstances you've described seem to have changed quite a bit since we first started talking, and I am growing increasingly concerned about the legitimacy of this situation.

I sympathize with the challenges you are experiencing, but I need to be cautious as well. There have been numerous cases of scams involving requests for financial assistance, and I want to make sure our relationship is genuine and built on trust.

Before we proceed with any financial transactions, I think it's essential that we establish a more solid foundation of trust between us. I would like to learn more about you, your life, and your intentions. I think it's important that we engage in more personal conversations to strengthen our relationship and mutual understanding.

I'm not denying the possibility of providing you with assistance, but I need to be certain that our connection is genuine and not influenced by ulterior motives. I hope you understand my concerns and are willing to work together to build a strong foundation for our relationship.

Looking forward to hearing more about you and your life.

Could you first give me video of yourself speaking directly to me? Mention my name?

 

Best regards,
Roger

April 21st 2023 - I asked for an advice from the ai Robot. Scammer vs a Robot

"Natalia wrote"

Hello dear Roger, How are you doing today? I'm very happy to receive your letter. How was your day? How is your health? Today I had a very intense day.

I had a lot of time to do different things during the day. In the morning I went to the store. I bought Foods made cleaning in my house. I carefully cleaned the house before leaving.

You know I like cleanliness and order. I like to cook, and I often cook different dishes of Ukrainen traditional cuisine.

Today I cooked dinner and thought that it would be nice if you could try that I cooked. I prepared the famous ukrainen Borsh.

Did you hear something about this? I think that this is the most famous dish in Ukraine after dumplings and pancakes. I was very keen to appreciate my dishes and appreciate their taste.

I really would like to stand in the kitchen and feel when you hug me, kiss me, touch my hips. It would be very nice to cook together with you our supper dinner.

I'm sure that you will like Roger very much as I cook. I'm more and more often visited by the thought that you think of me as a woman. Roger Do you like my body?

I believe that Sex in a relationship is also very important I would like to order what you think about it. I ask you to tell me your sexual ideas.

I want you to do this first since I never wrote about it first I do not complain. Do you understand me?? I'm waiting for your letter with answers to my questions. Your woman, Natalia

The robot replied:

Hello Natalia,

I hope you are doing well today. I appreciate your letter and the effort you put into sharing your day with me. It's wonderful to hear that you've been busy taking care of your home and preparing delicious meals. I must say, your description of the famous Ukrainian borscht has piqued my interest, and I would love to try it someday. The thought of us cooking together, sharing a meal, and enjoying each other's company is a pleasant one.

As for your question about my thoughts on your body, I want you to know that I find you attractive and charming. However, I also believe that mutual respect and understanding should be the foundation of our relationship. It is important for us to appreciate each other's personality, values, and intellect, as these are the factors that will make our connection truly meaningful.

Regarding the topic of intimacy and sex, I agree that it plays a significant role in any romantic relationship. Physical attraction and compatibility are essential aspects to consider, and open communication about these matters is vital for building trust and understanding between partners. Nonetheless, I believe that our conversations should remain respectful and focus on getting to know each other on a deeper level before delving into such personal topics.

I am glad that you and Darya have been exploring new things together, like learning how to create videos. It's always fun to try new activities with friends and share your experiences. I'm looking forward to seeing the video you mentioned and any other content you would like to share with me. These kinds of exchanges can help us grow closer and better understand each other's lives and interests.

As we continue to communicate, I hope that we can develop a strong bond based on mutual respect, trust, and understanding. It's important for both of us to feel comfortable and confident in sharing our thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Our conversations should be a safe space where we can express ourselves without fear of judgment or pressure.

Natalia, I would also like to learn more about your hobbies, aspirations, and the things that make you happy. Knowing what brings joy to your life will help me understand you better and appreciate the person you are. Likewise, I am open to sharing my own interests and passions with you so that we can find common ground and build a solid foundation for our relationship.

In closing, I want to thank you for being open and honest in your communication. I appreciate your willingness to share your thoughts and feelings with me, and I am eager to continue getting to know you better. As we continue to exchange letters, I hope that our connection will grow stronger, and we can develop a deep understanding and appreciation for each other. I am looking forward to your next letter and learning more about your life, dreams, and desires.

Take care and have a lovely day, Natalia.

Warm regards,
Roger

I asked the robot for an analyzis if it could be a scammer. Here's the results:

Based on Natalia's responses, there are some indicators that may suggest the person could be a scammer. However, it is important to remember that this is an analysis based on the given responses, and there is no absolute guarantee that the person is indeed a scammer. Here are some points that may indicate a scam:

Natalia talks about strong feelings and love early in the communication. This may be an attempt to quickly establish an emotional connection to gain trust.

There is a constant focus on money and financial issues, such as problems with bank transfers and salary. This may suggest that a request for financial assistance will come later in the communication.

Natalia mentions wanting to travel to meet you and provides specific details about the flight, even though it seems you haven't known each other for very long. This may be an attempt to create a sense of urgency and pressure.

It appears that Natalia either ignores or does not fully address some of your concerns, especially about telephobia and the desire to communicate via social media first. This may indicate that she is not interested in accommodating your needs or building a genuine connection.

She mentions wanting to send a video and implies sexual content. This could be an attempt to lure you into a compromising situation, where she could later blackmail you for money.

These indicators may suggest that Natalia could be a scammer. It is important to be cautious and verify the person's identity and intentions before sharing personal information or engaging in financial transactions.